Thursday, February 21, 2008

Take a deep breath and read my novel of an update!

Saturday morning I was heading out to drop stuff off at the post office. I got Misty ready, and Andrew got ready, and Ricky told me that he was dizzy and tired and wanted to lie down. This is unusual for him, though it has happened a couple of times recently. I did check his blood sugar and it was fine. (If you did not already know, we have been checking it routinely because he shows some signs of being pre-CF-related-diabetic.)

So the other two and I headed out and dropped the stuff off at the post office. We came back home to get a few things and then were going to go for a walk at the community center track. At first I planned on coming back for Ricky before we went to our lunch date with my friend Leann, but I realized he needed his rest and so we planned to head straight to lunch after our walk. Misty, Andrew and I went to the track and walked. After that, we went to lunch at Fresh Choice with my friend.

When we got home, Ricky was still sleeping, and ended up sleeping from I think 10:30 til 3 or 3:30. Dave went to Ikea to get furniture for Andrew’s soon-to-be-organized room. I made tuna casserole for dinner, and while it baked I bathed Misty and called the pediatric pulmonologist on call. She decided to call in a prescription for Bactrim but said that I should take Ricky in if I was concerned. He was doing his treatment at that time, clearly retracting and otherwise working hard to breathe. I decided that as soon as we’d all eaten dinner, I’d take him up to the ER. So I packed a bunch of stuff up and after dinner we headed out — just Ricky and me.

When we got to the ER, he immediately grabbed a mask to put on, without me even reminding him! This is so important with all of the sick people coughing and carrying on. I realized that I had forgotten to bring the med lists I’d printed out, and asked Dave to email the list to me — then I was able to read them off to the triage nurse (there are a lot of meds). They have a children’s ER waiting room there but we didn’t even make it there… Straight into an exam room. The doctor got a history and ordered a chest x-ray, keeping in communication with the pediatric pulmonology resident and attending.

For the first time, I heard Ricky say that his chest and sides hurt. :( I wish he had told me these things, but at least he told the doctor. The kid seems to have such a high pain tolerance! He had a breathing treatment (I LOL’d at the RT who said “Have you had one of these before?”). We got moved into a different room, he got an IV started, got labs drawn, and we got word that he was being admitted because the x-rays were lousy on top of his lungs being crackly. We waited and waited and waited. Ricky almost fell asleep a couple of times, but we kept getting interrupted. The nurse started an IV, at first putting on a Tegaderm dressing, which Ricky is allergic to, but then switching it to a tape dressing. Ricky had a full dose of IV antibiotics while we waited. And finally he got transported up to a room at LPCH, by wheelchair.

Once in the room, the resident came and talked to me. She had been all through Ricky’s recent history and some of the older stuff, thankfully, so I didn’t have to tell her much, which was nice since it was around midnight. I emphasized how important it is for him to have his psych meds at exactly the right times and not stay up too late. I really liked her, and she used to work at the children’s hospital up in Portland and thinks she remembers Dave from there. I emailed her the med list from my phone. She mentioned that the lab had forgotten to do a gram stain on the sputum culture that had been done from the ER, so they’d need to get another one. Ricky has no trouble producing sputum, let me tell you. They also needed to take more blood from him.

After the doc, the nurse came and checked Ricky in. I got him settled and he went to sleep around 1:30am when I was leaving. I stopped by admitting to sign a few papers and get my parking pass and parent badge. Then I had to walk all the way through both hospitals to get to my car and then beyond, to the lower parking lot. (Just realized I hadn’t yet mentioned the $8 valet parking in front of the emergency room. BS in my opinion!)

Got to sleep around 2:30. Misty had been up and down all evening and Dave was glad to see me. Got up about 7 on Sunday morning and took Misty out to Dave in the living room. I got to sleep a couple more hours, whew. The two kids and I headed up to see Ricky at about 11 on Sunday morning. I had visions of Ricky being on oxygen, and sure enough, when we got there, he had a mask on. I asked the nurse what had happened. She said that early this morning, on the previous shift, while sleeping, he had been dropping his oxygen saturation to 80% after a coughing fit, very very not good. So he was currently on 6 liters of oxygen. Whenever they took it off, he dropped to 89-90%, still not good. Ricky was kinda shifty yet lethargic, anxious and irritable on Sunday. He was very very paranoid about his IV tubing. Usually he lets Andrew sit in bed with him while they watch TV, but on Sunday he wouldn’t. He was scared about his oxygen tubing and IV tubing getting squashed or disconnected. He was all sweaty under his mask, but when he took it off to eat or do his breathing treatment, his sats dropped again and he had to put it back on. He was being very good about it.

The boys watched “Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets”, which we’d brought from home. Roo, Misty and I did go and have lunch in the big hospital cafeteria. Mine was pretty bad, but Andrew had some yummy looking broccoli. After lunch, the RT came to do Ricky’s treatment and he got really upset when she wanted to percuss him. He said his skin was sore, but we suspected it was actually his bones and muscles from all of the
coughing. Eventually she got a vibrating percussor and used that instead, and he seemed to like it better. I finally got Misty down for a nap around 2, and she and I both napped (with one break after an hour) for two hours. Ricky’s IV beeped off and on, he got up to pee a couple of times (with help, him being hooked up to the heart and O2 monitors and oxygen and all). Misty and I got up around 4. At 4:30 I helped the nurse test his blood sugar, and eventually the rest of us headed out and left Ricky there, which is always hard for me. I got out some of the clothes I had brought for him and told him to change.

Monday, my mom met us at our house at 8:15 and she and Andrew in her car followed Misty and me in the van up to the hospital. Dave’s meeting was canceled so he went over to see Ricky. He texted me that the doctor was already there and I texted him questions to ask. Answers: No, sputum culture results had not come back yet. X-ray had shown major consolidation on the right side. Dave informed me that Ricky was still on oxygen, 6L by mask. We got there and Ricky was having his breathing treatment and chest percussion. He was still complaining about being sore. The RT and Dave informed me that the doctor wants him to have CPT every time, or maybe CPT AND the vest, because it might help him clear the secretions better.

Dave headed out, and a little while later Ricky and I went down for his spirometry while my mom stayed with Roo and Misty. The idea was that he’d be switched to a nasal canula when we got back. Well, it turns out that we should have switched him first, because he had to take his mask (hooked up to a portable oxygen tank) off. Then he was too lightheaded to stand up to do his spirometry, and couldn’t breathe hard enough out to do well. He tried to do it standing up, and had a huge coughing fit. His FEV1 was then only in the 50%s, but the RT said it probably could have been 10-15% higher if he’d been on a nasal canula and thus able to breathe harder through his mouth. Argh. We got a canula onto Ricky, and he complained about it hurting his nose and sinuses. I guess I don’t blame him — it is a pretty uncomfortable feeling until you get used to it! When he first got it on, his oxygen was turned down to 4L, but his oxygen saturation went down to 80 and wouldn’t come up and I called the nurse. She was about to call respiratory when he coughed a bit and apparently cleared a mucus plug or something, and his numbers came back up. Whew — scary!

At some point, my mom and Andrew left. We hung out in the room, with Misty trying to destroy things. Eventually, an OT and PT came and asked some questions about what kind of therapy Ricky has at school (none, but has had it in the past and has recently been reassessed). They made him get up and walk with portable oxygen. We couldn’t get up to the roof because the elevator wouldn’t come. :( But we did go out to the patio and Misty played while we watched. On the walk there and back, Ricky was very wobbly and needed the PT to support him while the OT pushed the oxygen. It was so weird to see him this way. When we got back to the room, they showed me how to use the tank and encouraged me to take him out to walk each day and to get him to sit up in his bed.

Lunch came and he did pretty well at eating it (better menu options than last time… for lunch he had taquitos). He was pretty out of it, but the nurse and I got him to sit up on the side of his bed to eat. The afternoon wore on. Misty took a brief nap from 1 to 2. A lot of beeping from Ricky’s monitors and IVs woke her up eventually. :( The nurse tried to wean his oxygen down from 4L to 3L but it wasn’t good enough and they had to bump him back up (his oxygen kept getting down to 90ish%).

At about 4, Misty and I left. Ricky was a little sad to see us go. :( I feel bad that I have to leave him there. I did plant the idea of a PICC line into the day nurse’s head… Maybe she remembered to ask the residents? I also asked her to see if Ricky could be encouraged to shower. She said either that or they’d get the fire hose. :) I am worried about him this hospitalization. This is the sickest he’s been in about 5 years I think. That time, he had to have continuous albuterol for a couple of days, Solumedrol that messed up his bowels for good (always constipated), and oxygen. Hopefully this time turns out to be better. It’s worrying me.

Aside from the obvious niceness of not having to do treatments and meds, I really miss having Ricky around. It is quieter around here, sometimes in a good way but most of the time not. I need my ducks in a row. Plus, I worry about him because he has not been this sick in a long time.

And there it is, probably more than you ever wanted to know!

Ricky with his oxygen mask on (not as scary as it looks) 02-20-2008

Saturday, February 2, 2008

Ricky with the GPSr  01-29-08

Ricky’s doing pretty well. He has off-and-on had coughs and a sore throat, but his lung function has continued to be impressive. He also battled some wicked thrush that took two medications to knock out! Ricky’s mental health issues have been much trickier, but at the moment, things are under control.

Another issue we’ve been dealing with is the fact that Ricky has not grown substantially taller (or put much weight on, for that matter) in two years. He was first evaluated by the diabetes clinic, and after some random blood sugar testing over several months it was determined that he was not diabetic. However, subsequent blood tests ordered by the endocrinologist have shown that he might have a pituitary disorder, and we’re having the blood tests repeated this week to see if the results hold true. He’ll have an MRI if the blood tests are still wonky.

Ricky has been homeschooled (with curriculum from the school district) since school started in September, while we wait for a school placement for him (in a special education class at a middle school). It is taking FOREVER but hopefully we’ll have news soon.

Misty (now 18 months old) and Andrew (almost 10!) are also doing great. Dave is working as a nurse manager still, and I’ve been working scattered hours here or there as a temp library clerk. I will post some pictures to Ricky’s picture album soon.

We want to thank Ricky’s regular correspondents, including Shayne and Julianna, as well as the other kind people who have written to him and sent him things. The past year has been very difficult for our family in many ways, and we really love that people are still thinking of Ricky and wishing him well.

Sunday, December 23, 2007

be sure to check the archives


Ricky 05-07-2002
Originally uploaded by Beckerbuns
In addition to writing new stuff, I'm going to start importing significant entries from my old blogs. So be sure to check the archives links over to the right, as I'm hoping to put proper retroactive dates on everything...

12 years ago


Becky and Ricky
Originally uploaded by Beckerbuns
Originally posted to my friends-only LiveJournal blog here on November 26, 2004.

On the day after Thanksgiving, 1995, I was admitted to the hospital because my baby was not moving. Shortly after an abnormal ultrasound I was transferred to a hospital with a level 4 NICU and Ricky was born two days later, November 26, 1995, by cesarean section.

The baby (who had no name for several days, having surprised us by coming 7 weeks early) almost immediately had bowel surgery and then spent seven tumultuous weeks in the NICU.

Becky and Ricky

About 10 days into his hospitalization, the genetic tests came back and we learned that our firstborn had cystic fibrosis. It was the beginning of our long journey.

Little foot

And 9 years ago today it all began.

Note: Now it's actually been 12 years!

the story of a boy

Okay, so this is the initial post in my new "story of a boy" blog.

Ricky is my 12-year old son. He has cystic fibrosis, bipolar disorder NOS, probably PDD-NOS, and various learning and social skills issues.

For a long time I've been thinking about consolidating my blog posts about Ricky that are in various places, into one place. So that's why I'm creating this bog, in order to do that -- and also to write new posts about how things are going with Ricky and what I am learning on this journey.

Perhaps others who stumble onto this blog can learn a little bit about what it's like to parent a child with special needs, battle the education and health systems, and things of that nature.

I wish I had something more witty to say, but for now, there you go.

Thursday, November 8, 2007

Ricky on his sixth day in the hospital, looking tough.  102907

Ricky came home from the hospital on Tuesday. This hospitalization was 13 days, tied for his longest yet. I got to see his latest x-ray. Clearly, the atelectasis (collapsed band of lung) was resolved. Yay! There still appeared to be infiltrates in his right lung, and maybe in his left, but the doctor is of the opinion that these are areas of bronchiectasis (narrowed, inflamed airways) that are not going to go away. :( It’s progression of the CF lung disease. While this does not surprise me, it does sadden me a bit. We had held the disease back for so long… He’s had some signs of bronchiectasis in his CT scans in the past but they’d resolved. Not anymore, maybe. I’m hoping that when we go back to visit Ricky’s pulmonologist in clinic, she’ll order another x-ray and we see if it DOES go away. But for now we are home, and it’s all good. Yay!

Thank you all for thinking of Ricky and for all you do for him.

Friday, October 26, 2007

Hospital

Ricky started up with coughing, wheezing and chest tightness last Thursday. The pediatrician saw him and put him on Biaxin and the CF doc upped the strength of his Advair inhaler. By Monday he was not better so I had him seen again when Misty was having her well baby visit. His lungs sounded crackly still and generally not well. Pedi got ahold of the CF doc and we were told to come Tuesday. So we saw the CF doc on Tuesday. Still crackly, lung function down 20%, and x-ray show partial atelectasis (collapsed lung) and minor infiltrates, both in the left lung. She said he needed to go into the hospital… But there were no beds available. So we were sent home with an rx for Levaquin and orders to start doing thAIRapy vest again (we’ve been doing the hand-held Acapella) and up the hypertonic saline treatments to 3x per day.

I heard “no news” from the CF nurse a couple of times Wednesday and then finally got a call around 3 in the afternoon… They had a bed. Not in the usual CF unit but they’ll move him over when there’s a bed there. So Ricky is in and doing fine. Misty and I left him once his IV was in. He’s been out for a year and a half. Guess it’s just time. Please keep Ricky in your thoughts, with wishes for a speedy recovery!
Ricky with his new PICC line!  102507

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

I just realized that it has been a long time since I updated on Ricky. He came home right after I sent the last update (late July) and has been doing great since then. His bipolar disorder is stable now, and what’s more, so is his cystic fibrosis. He has now not been in the hospital for the CF since April of 2006. One thing that has worried the doctors is that Ricky has not grown taller or significantly heavier in over two years. So he was recently evaluated by an endocrinologist for CF-related diabetes (which is similar to both of the standard kinds of diabetes, but also unique in and of itself). We are monitoring his glucose randomly, and so far he does show signs of gradually becoming insulin resistant. Back at the end of last school year, when he was going through all of the psychiatric problems, Ricky was removed from the special education school program he was in, because he actually attacked some staff while in a rage. Over the summer, he attended a non-public school program where he himself was attacked by bigger, meaner kids. I got him withdrawn from that program and ever since then, the school district has been trying to find an appropriate program. We have toured two schools, and liked the second one, which has a clinical and therapeutic component, and a great reputation. I recently got word that the district is going to try to get Ricky into the second program.
De Young Museum, Golden Gate Park 15 09-21-2007

Andrew and Misty are both fine. Dave recently got word of a new promotion he is getting to a higher managerial position. I am a stay at home mom, but in July I transferred (from my old customer service job) to a position as a temp library clerk, working occasional shifts. I really like the flexible hours.

Guess that’s it from us for now! Thank you to everyone for the continued cards and letters. It has meant a lot to Ricky, especially with all of the trouble he’s been having this year.

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Andrew, Misty and Ricky 060907

I thought you all might want to hear what has been going on with Ricky.

Ricky is still at the children’s shelter because of his bipolar disorder and us being unable/unwilling to have him at home — not wanting to endanger the other children. We are having court this coming Friday. The social worker had to file another petition in order to keep Ricky at the shelter when the director of DFCS suddenly demanded that he go home if there was no petition, a few weeks ago, and this will be a jurisdiction disposition hearing (where DFCS would officially make him a ward of the court).

Well, since the petition was filed, we have worked hard via therapy and home visits to get ready for Ricky to come home. He has also had some med adjustments and I think that has made a difference. Anyway, Ricky was home ALL WEEKEND, the longest amount of time yet, and it went really well. I am so happy! I have missed him a lot and it seemed really sad to take him back to the shelter tonight.

So hopefully we will have him home within the next couple of weeks. At the hearing on Friday, the social worker is going to ask the judge for a continuation to give us just a little more time. Keep your fingers crossed that things continue to go well!

Ricky’s health has been excellent. At this point he has not been in the hospital since April of last year. He has put on some weight and I think he’s also grown taller. We will find out at one or another of his several upcoming specialist appointments. He has been having some knee pain, and the nurses at the shelter have been theorizing that this is due to growing pains. I have heard of this happening with boys around this age.

The last week of school, Ricky was kicked out of the public school he was attending because he had a rage and injured people. We have been battling with the school districts (our home one and that one) since then but meanwhile he is attending a very rough private school for kids with behavioral issues. It has turned out not to be a good environment for him so I have requested another IEP meeting to get him put into another school.

We want to thank everyone as always for sending cards, letters, and other things. It really means a lot to Ricky to get mail when we bring it to him at the shelter.

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Last I updated, Ricky was having some psychiatric problems. Well, these things are still going on. He was in emergency psych at that time for a week, and then was at a short-term residential facility for a month. During that time, he had home visits, and wanted to get a Build a Bear, so he “sold” me his Toys R Us gift card from MACS and bought a Build a Bear at the mall. (I will put pictures in his MACS album.)

Ricky came home week before last, but only lasted three days before he had a rage again and had to be taken in an ambulance to the emergency psych unit again. From there he was put into the children’s shelter, where he is currently waiting for a longer-term residential psych placement. In a residential setting, Ricky can get the med adjustments and therapy that he desperately needs. The placement is made more complicated by Ricky’s medical needs, which necessitate a nurse being hired.

I wanted to say that we still appreciate the cards and letters that have been sent to the boys. I do make sure that Ricky gets everything that is sent to him, so please keep them coming. I am sure that he is homesick and sad, and getting mail can only help.

Thank you all, and I will keep you updated on Ricky’s progress toward getting placement.

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